Are Broken Hearts Really Worth It?

So I am currently in debate with myself, & if you have any sense at all you probably already know what Im debating... Are broken hearts really worth it? Simple question. Not so simple answer. I mean sure for say a few months .. maybe more your blissfully happy. But than BAM.. either he (or she) breaks your heart or you break his (or her) .. now your left to excuse the pun but pick up the pieces. I mean how does a relationship girl go back to being single? Well at first lets face it we cry.. wallow.. drink lots.. eat insane amounts of ice cream & basically anything we can get our hands on. But then it changes into super duper single mode.. partying..drinking... flirting with anything that has a pulse... seriously anything.. I may have even flirted with a squirel but I blame the tequila for that one. And then you get hit again .. that moment where your laying in bed..cold..alone..thinking to yourself .. fuck I really want someone to hold me. LAME. I know I will be the first girl to tell you. But I do miss it. I do. I think going from having someone to cuddle with, call whenever you want, do shit whenever you want to well basically being alone is hard. I mean really hard. You have to find yourself again. But in a way I think it better prepares you... I mean if you cant be alone with yourself .. than how can anyone else?